Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Is it normal for a teenager to be pro-one-night-stands?

Refering to my previous question:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Anz3PlwmdLvqfDGHxBwPdHHD7BR.;_ylv=3?qid=20080623155513AAptYuP





i'm 17. all my friends around my age 14-24 still go for the whole lovey-dovey-forever thing and i think it's cute and all, but it's just that i don't believe in it anymore. for someone who's been hurt really badly in her teen years, is it normal for me to just stop believing in "true love"?



when i tell my friends that i'd much rather go clubbing and have sex with someone that turns me on rather than to settle down and have a boyfriend, they just tell me that i'm weird.



so honestly, for my age, is it normal for me to believe in this? because i don't know anyone around my age that DOESN'T believe in "the one" or "forever", besides me of course.



and look at it this way, if it was a one-nighter, you wouldn't have to worry about dealing with that guy ever again, true?Is it normal for a teenager to be pro-one-night-stands?You're just hiding from getting hurt again,this is not the way to do it,eventually you'll get tired of this way of life and it will destroy your reputation around town,you'll have to move away to find someone or try to convince a stranger to get with you,we've all been hurt in relationships and we comeback to normal overtime.We just get wiser and look for more genuine signs and not just focus on money and looks,that is a part of it but good ways and good values should be more important.So don't give up on finding the right guy.Things like this sometime's happen when you least expect it."Life is one big party when you're still young but who's gonna have your back when it's all done it's all good when you live to have fun but you can't be a fool girl what about the long run"Is it normal for a teenager to be pro-one-night-stands?In your situation, it is normal to be disillusioned with the idea of love. But, that doesn't mean you should be pro-hookup and pro-random sex. You are too young to be having sex with random strangers and hooking up. That is disgusting and a recipe for disaster, such as pregnancy, STDs, or rape. At your age, hooking up with older guys is illegal. You are still considered a minor. BE CAREFUL.Is it normal for a teenager to be pro-one-night-stands?Perfectly normal. You absolutely shouldn't have a relationship right now if you don't want one. You might want one again someday, maybe not, but for now, follow your hormones and enjoy yourself. Your friends think that you are weird because they are thinking differently, that's all.

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