Do you think it is pointless for me to stay a virgin til I find my love?

Since in todays society there are few virgin girls should I just lose my virginity since I probably won't be a girl's first, I mean I don't have a problem losing my virginity since I am in college and there are plenty of girls looking for a one night stand but I always wanted to have my first time with a woman I want to spend my life with.Do you think it is pointless for me to stay a virgin til I find my love?Lol I would tell you that it is not pointless for you to stay a virgin until you find your love.Do you think it is pointless for me to stay a virgin til I find my love?
Something like having sex is ultimately your own personal choice. Apparently you have chosen to wait for someone you love and have a commitment with. Nothing is wrong with that. Keep in mind by bedding down someone just to do it, you put yourself at risk for things like disease and unwanted pregnancy too. Also when you avoid sex in a relationship you tend to build desire, respect, and a real relationship without adding the complications of sex to it. Many times people have sex before knowing the other person and when that spark dies down they have nothing left. Of course sex is fun, but you have to know what you are getting into when you chose to do it. Lets say you meet "the one" do you want to tell her, "yes I have had sex and it was meaningless, I just did it to do it." Once people begin to have sex it rarely ends up being just with one person, you end up having sex with many people and after a while it is just sex, you lose the meaning, and lose track of how many you slept with, etc. You do not sound like someone who wants to go down that path. I would advise you to sit down right your pros and cons and seriously think this through. Good Luck!!Do you think it is pointless for me to stay a virgin til I find my love?You are quite correct and it is certainly NOT pointless to remain a virgin until you find the right girl that God has earmarked for you and she will also be a virgin so that the 2 of you can have a wonderfully satisfying sex life once you are married and committed to each other until 'until death do you part' !Do you think it is pointless for me to stay a virgin til I find my love?
I'd say if you don't feel right about it and don't feel ready, don't do it. It sounds like a one night stand is something you wouldn't feel right about. When you meet that special girl who you fall very much in love with, you'll feel ready and you both will know in your hearts when the time is right. Having or not having one's virginity should never be looked at as any sort of status symbol.Do you think it is pointless for me to stay a virgin til I find my love?I was in your position once. I was 20 years old and a virgin. I had the same feelings as you, guys were flirting with me and went on dated, I was so tempted but it did not feel write and I did not know why. Until I meet this guy, and I just knew, he was the one. We are still together after seven years. But that is not the point that we are still together. I knew he was the one even though if we did not end up together for long. When it is time you just know it. And when you feel it is time, you will never regret it now matter what happens. Don鈥檛 stress about it and let it just fall naturally.Do you think it is pointless for me to stay a virgin til I find my love?
unless you want to waste yourself on someone whos face you wont remember in a few years maybe you wont remember their name. do you want that?