I have just found out my partner of 13 years cheated on me twice( one night stands)this happened 8 years ago?

but i just found out within last few days i have 3 children with him, i don't know whether to carry on with the relationship, i do love him thou but am just confusedI have just found out my partner of 13 years cheated on me twice( one night stands)this happened 8 years ago?Well, it's understandably a shock for you since you just found out. Yikes....



Talk to him about this...so that you can put it to rest. Find out why, why, why he would do such a thing.?



If it hasn't happened for 8 years you should be okay...but I would under no circumstance put up with it again...should it ever happen in the future. Period. Make sure he's clear on that.I have just found out my partner of 13 years cheated on me twice( one night stands)this happened 8 years ago?
Oh 8 years ago ,,,, just forget it ,, you have him and he has stayed with you and the kidsI have just found out my partner of 13 years cheated on me twice( one night stands)this happened 8 years ago?ask him why, ask him will it ever happen again, ask him if its ok if you cheat twice now.

tell him to wake up and enjoy the mother of his childrenI have just found out my partner of 13 years cheated on me twice( one night stands)this happened 8 years ago?
Under what circumstances did you find out about the 2 one night stands?

Did he lovingly sorrowfully confess due to years of guilt eating away at his inner being? Or did someone else tell you? Why after 8 years would someone bring that up. That's just down right sh*tty %26amp; hurtful. It happened long ago %26amp; I by no means condone such behavior but come on 8 years,.... it took someone 8 years to tell you. I would have to know who it was that told you if it was other than your partner, I'd question their motives as well as where in your future they fit in because from where I see it they don't!!! If it was your partner than why now? Did he have some spiritual enlightenment a near death experience? hmm

Sounds to me you need to weed out who it is you rely on for your support system.

If you know he's been true to date since the last 1 night stand than work on things give it your all %26amp; don't ever look back or throw in his face what your willing to forgive in this moment. But if you have that womanly intuition that says there's an awful lot of time/nights he can not account for than remember it's 3 children he'll be paying support for.I have just found out my partner of 13 years cheated on me twice( one night stands)this happened 8 years ago?well thats a long time if it mean't anything he would have left you right

at least it's out the closet, just make sure there no more lies or secretsI have just found out my partner of 13 years cheated on me twice( one night stands)this happened 8 years ago?
Is it true though, or some malicious gossip. Have you asked him about it. If it`s true,and if you can forgive, and your life has been a happy one, then just carry on as you have. If on the other hand he has`nt been the best of a father or husband, turf him out. Unfortunately the love you have for him might fade, and his cheating could rear it`s ugly head during an argument. So do you stay and he goes or do you make the best of it you both can, only you will have the answer eventually.