My girlfriend had sex with her male roomate. she said it was just sex. twice in one night and she came twice?

she denied it at first but while making love to me she confessed. i think he slept with her more than that night. should i ask or let it goMy girlfriend had sex with her male roomate. she said it was just sex. twice in one night and she came twice?Are you not stocked very high in the self-esteem department? Geez, let her go, and tell her off while you are at it. I don't care what your opinion of yourself is...you can do better than her!! Just thank God that you were not married to her. Next time, get a gal who does not live with a male.My girlfriend had sex with her male roomate. she said it was just sex. twice in one night and she came twice?
It depends on if you want to know the truth or not. If you do want to know the truth then ask her, of course that doesn't mean she'll tell you the truth, but at least you asked. If you don't want to know the truth then don't ask her. But it might eat away at you.



Frankly, in my opinion, there is no such thing as "just sex." There was a reason she had sex with him. She is dating you and there is no reason good enough why she would have cheated on you. The likeliness of her cheating on you again is high, especially since she lives with the guy she cheated on you with.



The question you should be asking yourself is, do you want to stay in a relationship with someone who cheats on you and then tries to play if off and get off the hook but saying it was nothing more than just sex!!!!My girlfriend had sex with her male roomate. she said it was just sex. twice in one night and she came twice?You are with a girl that have a boy roomate, WOW i thing you should know this was going to happen before it happen, I'm not saying you never should have trust her, all I'm saying is that you should have known it was going to happen. Does it really matter how many times she have sex with him, you need to DUMP her, and find yourself someone you can trust!!!!!
Should you ask or let IT go? IT?



No. Ask if you are curious....and maybe if you want to torture yourself, but then let HER go. Come to think of it, if you did ask for clarification, could you believe anything she told you?



It sounds like she gave you all sorts of details - more than anyone who actually cared about you at all, would. Twice and twice? Nobody tells a boyfriend that unless they are either trying to get rid of him, test his devotion, or make him jealous.



She couldn't keep her undies on and say no....can you be sure she won't behave that way again in the future? You can't.



Dump the **** and save yourself the trouble....And get yourself checked for STDs before you go anywhere with anyone else!My girlfriend had sex with her male roomate. she said it was just sex. twice in one night and she came twice?I am not here to judge or give advise, look to your heart, remember the Lord forgives you when you do wrong, we are not perfect. I have been in this same sort of situation, only worse, it all depends on what you want, you are the one that has to deal with it, if it makes you happy that's what matters. I stayed in both situations, I have no regrets, I was not perfect either. Life is what you put into it.My girlfriend had sex with her male roomate. she said it was just sex. twice in one night and she came twice?
You should let it go if it doesn't bother you. But also consider if she is still living with the same roommate.



If she is, just because you are in the picture doesn't mean that she wouldn't do him again, despite how many times she tells you that she wouldn't.



Apparently the sex was good enough to make her go back for seconds.



JUST BEWARE
Wow. Um yeah, the bestt hignt hat you can do is to just let it go. Shes not worth it. I hate it when people use that line, "its just sex" No its not just sex. It probably meant something more. I really feel for you, i do. You have to let he go and just find someone else who will be better to you.My girlfriend had sex with her male roomate. she said it was just sex. twice in one night and she came twice?
neither ask her nor Let it go...just let her go( if u want to be in a serious relationship) but if u don;t wanna be in serious relationships then just tell her OW baby i know it was just one night , i love u and i still DO trust u ;) , i bliv u came to know what u did was wrong ,now let's do the damn thing all over again ....
she is taking advantage of you. your supposed to have sex with someone you are in love with it not supposed to be just sex. its not ok for her to sleep with random guys especially if shes in a relationship i think you should find a girl that will do you right not cheat
Let it go???? Was she dating you when screwing him? If so why are still worried about it? Let her have as much sex with whoever she wants and move on before you catch something you'll need to be treated for from her. Unless you like disloyal girlfriend whores.
She's been unfaithful to you. No you should not let it go. Apart from all of the trust issues that raises you've got to be careful and make sure you use a condom. She also told you she came...twice! That's not nice. I'd walk away.
I think you were good enough to even let her have a male roommate dude! I would have dumped her just for that. But if you still want to be with her, then heck yeah you should ask, she's your girl, it's your business.
i dont know about you but i would dump her so fast have you ever heard the saying once a cheater always a cheater. beleive it and dump her!!! she is wrong to do that to you and you sound like you could do a LOT better.
Ok, why bother asking. If she will do it once she will definitly do it again. Obviously she does not care enough for you to stay faithful. You should really dump her and find someone who can be faithful.
You should let *her* go. If she can't be faithful to you, then the relationship is lost. Find someone you can trust that will be committed to the relationship.
Dump her it is her room mate. If she lied once she is just going to keep doing it. Besides why else would you want a room mate of the opposite sex?
Your girlfriend is one of two things:



If she got paid for the sex, she is a prostitute.



If she did not get paid, she is a who*e.



Those are your two choices.



The Rat
she confessed during sex? how rude lol ...piss on their beds (both so it doesnt matter which one they do it in) and then leave forever. oh and try not to let her ruin your opinion of all women. some are terrific.
We did it waaaaaay more than that night man. Sorry but she says you don't please her.



Don't break up with her though man. I like it when you bring over movies. We have similar taste in movies and women.
I'll get right to the point.... she's a hoe.



You know she's going to do it again.



Move on... you don't want herpes do you?
why are you still with the whore is the question. she is cheating on you BIG time and you know about it. are you just plain stupid?
Not only did she cheat on you, but she kind of rubbed it in your face, talking about his abilities.



I say, DTMFA. Dump the MF already.
if it was while she was your girlfriend, how did u not dump her right away...no u shouldnt let it go unless it was b4 she dating u then i guess nothing u can do about the past
you shouldn't let it go%26gt;%26gt;you should let her go!!

ITs her roomate!! they share the same room, just imagine what might be happening throughout all the rest of nights when they are alone.
seriously ask about it. u dont have to break up with her if u dont want to but u HAVE to ask her about it. or else it will always bug u
Well, do you think she is still hooking up with him? If she is, drop her..... cause no matter what she says it will continue to happen.
nothing is just sex....sex is really important and is gods gift to us......ASK....if then ur a bad boyfriend and shes a bad girlfriend to do another guy
Break up with her!!!! Once a cheater always a cheater! Get rid of her now before she rips out your still beating heart and tramples it.
you should definately ask her.

but i find the part where she said, "it was just sex" kinda disturbing.. just sex?!?!

thats like incredibly worse than cheating!
dee dee dee ask
That's cheating dude. Dump her. You shouldn't be treated like that. You should find a girl who's gonna respect you.