Need advise. Bf and I of 3+ years broke up. During break up he has one night stand and gets girl pregnant.?

He is so so ashamed of what he's done. Confessed it all to me. We have since decided to get back together. Seems our love is stronger. He is not sure if baby is his. Pending paternity once born. We have talked about everything that we could possibly talk about with regards to his mistake. I have asked for him to get tested for AIDS and std's. Problem is that I cannot get pass the other girl being pregnant. I think that I am really hurt by this. I wake at night with my eyes filled with tears. I love him and I know that he is sorry and has learned his lesson but how can I move on?Need advise. Bf and I of 3+ years broke up. During break up he has one night stand and gets girl pregnant.?Just sit back and wait for the paternity test. As far as the girl being pregnant, not really sure what this has to do with you, since you and he were not together at the time. Seems to me like you're trying to create drama where there should be none.Need advise. Bf and I of 3+ years broke up. During break up he has one night stand and gets girl pregnant.?
This may not seem the best answer but when ur emotions are running wild a chemical builds in our body and the only way to release it is to cry so if ur really upset about something just give yourself a time when you can cry maybe have a close friend there as well and eat chocolate it does make u feel betterNeed advise. Bf and I of 3+ years broke up. During break up he has one night stand and gets girl pregnant.?1. don't freak out til you know the baby is his. you could be freaking out over nothing







if it is his baby,well it depends on how much you love him, do you love him enough that you think you could spend the rest of your life with him? well if you do you would have to get over his baby because it won't go away. If you can't get past him having that baby than do what you have to doNeed advise. Bf and I of 3+ years broke up. During break up he has one night stand and gets girl pregnant.?
You cannot "move on". This baby will be in his life and an issue between you two forever. I had a bf years back who had gotten a girl pregnant just prior to my meeting him. The next years were a living hell. He went back and forth to her for the months while she was pregnant, and naturally had to rush to the hospital to see his baby once it was born. There is no worse feeling than being left out of an event like that and not being the mother of your bf's child. Then, there is child support, seeing the baby out an about with the mom.....and all that goes with it.Need advise. Bf and I of 3+ years broke up. During break up he has one night stand and gets girl pregnant.?Things happen for a reason. And the reason he confessed to you was because he needed support for an issue that he created- not you. So, there's this pregnancy see? but what he didn't tell you was that you wouldn't have known about his supposed "one night stand" unless there was a problem from it. He didn't have a problem with it- until she got pregnant. You wouldn't have known otherwise. In all likelihood, there are probably allot of other things you dont know about.



Once trust goes out the window- you'll have to sleep with one eye open for the rest of your life. And you'll need that sleep when you're changing the diapers of some poor infant who doesn't get to see his Father but once a week when his Mother drops him off with a diaper bag. You have no say in this at all. You say Your BF has learned his lesson- what would that be? Now, what is your lesson from this? That's the most important part. Sometimes it pays to move on without the people who cause the problems on their own... It's not your responsibility to raise his kid, pay for child support or stand by your man. This is a deal breaker.Need advise. Bf and I of 3+ years broke up. During break up he has one night stand and gets girl pregnant.?
Are you sure he didn't have an affair with her and broke up with you when he found out she was pregnant. And is lying about all of this. If this is his baby then ask him to find out when this baby was conceived.