Should I be upset that my gf lost her virginity during a one night stand?

I have been with my gf for 2 years now. When we first met I found out that she had lost her virginity to a guy in a closet. She told me she was drunk. It hurt me to hear that but I brushed it off and thought well the past is the past. We didn't discuss it much further nor did I think of it as a big deal at that time. I was the second person she was with after that incident. She was 18 and I was 21. However, recently I have been thinking that she may be the one and that I want to take our relationship to he next level. I love her so much and I think she should have the world, But I have been thinking more about why she gave herself up so easily. Because that is not like her at all. I just wan2 to talk with her about why she didn't value loosing her virginity more at the time but I don't want to come off as putting her down or thinking less of her. I don't even know if she was kind of seeing the guy or if it was totally random person. I really know nothing. I think she is hesitant to talk about the situation because she doesn't want to remember it so thats why this is kind of touchy. Any suggestions on how to approach this? Thanks.Should I be upset that my gf lost her virginity during a one night stand?i don't think you should be all that upset. im not saying i lost mine the same way. i just think that its in the past. its not like you can change her or her past. she did it because thats what she wanted at the moment. being drunk is not an excuse. she was probably at a depressing point in her life where she just wanted to feel loved. i dont think that you should hold that against her now. you love her, and with loving her you have to love everything about her(including her past). i think you should take it to the next level and talk about the subject when SHE wants to. hope i helped.Should I be upset that my gf lost her virginity during a one night stand?
No, I kind of did. I had sex with him 3 times but didn't want him to be my boyfriend or anything although I was attracted to him. He was super cute but totally shallow. I just wanted to get it over with. I was 18. I have never cheated on a guy, I don't two time, don't lie, hide or sneak, I am faithful no matter what. Your girl may be the same wayShould I be upset that my gf lost her virginity during a one night stand?i could see how that would bother you but honestly i would let it go because it happened in the past and no answer to any question you have for her is going to give you closer or make things better. i have been in a similar but more complicated situation so most likely she probably feels bad about it and im sure she has punished herself with her own thoughts and doesn't want to keep talking about it. from being in a situation like this i would really just move on a focus on your relationship and not worry what she did one night 2 years ago. good luck.Should I be upset that my gf lost her virginity during a one night stand?
Well, you need to let the past be the past. From what I have read, you were not together when this happened, so it is nothing against you. It is not about you at all. Surely you have made some bad decisions in your life? I mean, yeah, its pretty trashy being 18, drunk, and losing (note the correct spelling) your virginity in a closet, but again, it was in the past.Should I be upset that my gf lost her virginity during a one night stand?People do things when they are young that they may or may not regret when they get older. It happened before you met and you can't or shouldn't hold that against her. I'm sure you have made some mistakes in your past. At least she was adult enough to have told you. Please move on if you think your relationship is worth saving.Should I be upset that my gf lost her virginity during a one night stand?
dump her dump her fast!

Best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Slutty behavior is just so common that everyone thinks it's ok.



All you need is 1 girl so it better be the eph....ing right one!!!!!!!!!!



They're hard to find but it's a LIFETIME decision!! and you don't want to settle.



Pick one that you can tell your kids with GREAT PRIDE. "That's your mom!"



Don't let these fallen women convince you. They're trying to justify their wanton behaVIOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!