I go to the bar alone a lot and girls and i could of had a few one night stands buy t just could go throw with it i wanted to may be i was not drunk enough
so it not like i cant talk to woman or any thing , but still kinda shy at first.
the voice in the back of my head keeps telling me to wait tell i get a GF , is this what you want a one night stand your going to feel empty inside after wards?
I want a GF , but it is hard to find single girls that are my age group.
I don't want to be a 40 year old virgin. It's bad enough been a 25 year old virgin.
I just dont don't if i have the will power to wait for the right girl any more . It's a lasting relationship with someone who loves and desires me that I long for ,but if i never find it then what?
The stress and anxiety of being a total social outcast is overwhelming.will i be good for her in bed i know it is going to be bad for a while.Are my friends right? i should loses my virginity in one night stand?Don't you dare lose your virginity in a one night stand!
You'll find a girl one day, and she will be wonderful, and you'll want to give her your virginity in a meaningful way! Trust me - no emotional baggage? it's crazy when there's 15 year olds having sex...it's really a gift from God to find an older guy that doesn't have emotional baggage and a lot of needless experience!
Take it from me, i'm a 20 year old girl, sophomore in college - i found my boyfriend this year (he's never even made out with a girl before me!) and trust me, it's the greatest thing ever! i love being the one that's able to corrupt him, and i know that there was no one really before me...it just makes it really special. SO, my point is, wait until you find a girl you really really like, because you have a heads up on other guys that play around a lot. Besides...a one night stand? you'll probably end up with some kinky std. Leave it be - you're not a "social outcast" or anything...you're awesome!!! =]
i don't understand all of these people talking about virginity like it's a disease. you're not inept of you haven't lost it, people! i mean, really...it's harder to NOT lose it these days! it makes you special, in a good way!!! people are so stupid. lolAre my friends right? i should loses my virginity in one night stand?
Personally, I don't think you should just lose your virginity to a one night stand. There's no special memories with that. You should just wait until you find the right person to lose it to. It would be more meaningful. Your virginity isn't something you should just give to anyone.Are my friends right? i should loses my virginity in one night stand?NO NO NO! This is a bad idea. You should just wait and find someone your comfortable with all the time. Sex should be special for the first time and with someone you really do love. Dont just do it for the sake of it. You could also pick up a nasty STD r something.
My man, go for the One Night Stand. I lost my virginity at a party-ONS and it was a frikkin 3-way, and that wasn't even planned. Her "girlfriend" walked in on us and said "Mind of I join?"
THAT'S HOW YOU DO IT!Are my friends right? i should loses my virginity in one night stand?I would call your Congressman, and tell him how this society is not working for you. I am not joking. What you did amounts to near torture.Are my friends right? i should loses my virginity in one night stand?
25 is too old to still be a virgin.
Go get an escort and just get it over with. You'll find it was over hyped, bigtime. Then move on with your life.
you waited this long. you should wait for someone you loves you. you will feel empty inside afterward. trust me I know.Are my friends right? i should loses my virginity in one night stand?
NO!! Dont !! It cuzes emotional problems.
one night stand
In your case, just do it.
i think you should wait you came this far and it will be a great gift for your girlfriend
still a virgain am 15 and am not
first of all if you have been holding out already then i think you know that you wouldn't want a one night stand. my boyfriend was a virgin and was around lots of girls who were the type to just have sex and never talk about it again and he had even gotten a few offers but he really didn't want to lose it like that so he waited and he was very happy that he lost it with me.
you should take the advice of the 40 year old virgin and simply keep looking for a girlfriend. once you do have her, after a little while you can tell her you're a virgin and explain it and if shes the right girl she'll understand and want to help you. yes you will be a little inexperienced and quick but if she likes you a lot then she'll be patient.
don't worry about what other people are thinking about you. being a social outcast? its not like people can read virgin on your forehead, no one even has to know. just because you don't get laid every night with random women does not mean you're a social outcast.
have faith and work towards a girlfriend and i think it would be much more meaningful for you.
personaly id wait if i were u because ur gonna remember that person 4EVER! no matter what u do ull remember them and u wouldnt have loved them and it kinda woulda been like u just found them and fu*ked um ... i dont think id b really happy remembering that for ever! ....
i think u should waitt! ... ull find some one AMAZING! im sure of it! and ull b soooooooooooo happy u waited!!!!
i hope thiis helos u!!!! goodluckk!
Ya being th shy guy sucks, I know how you feel. All the good girls are taken early, and the only single girls seem to be swingers. Become outgoing, by that I mean, do stuff that interests you, like goto the libary or join a dog club if your interested in that. Just talk to them when possible. You have to break that boundary.
If there is a girl who is also a virgin that you have your eyes on, wait my friend. On the other hand, most people feel that, just like they said on 40 year old virgin, that you really oughta know what you are doing in bed before you fall in love. It's all a matter of your feelings my friend. I recommend you do what you feel is right for you, i waited a while before i had sex because i felt it wasn't worth my time; after doing the deed i enjoy it and how it brings me closer to those i care about. If you choose a 'one night stand' make it with a F*** buddy, a girl who likes you enough to sleep with you but will also stay friends with you after the fact, it can actually strengthen the friendship. Good luck regardless of what you decide :-)
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