IS THERE a rule after one night stand?

I've met a guy and saw each other twice, on the 2nd tym I saw him something happenned( we already talked about it before hand). It's been a month now and we still chat over the net but not the phone( even before we don't talk on the phone) and I always initiate the chatting. Is there such a rule for having a 1 night stand? I can say Us is two night stand eventhough the 1st night is just making out. The problem is I felt something that I'm not supposed to feel and each time I chat with him I can't control myself of asking him if there's a possibilty that me and him can be at least be casually and he said he just wants to be friends for now cos his not ready to jump into anything yet (which i knew from the start that his still madly in love with his ex GF), I just cannot walk away from what I feel for him, but it seems no matter what I do or say , for him I'm just a booty call..Am I breaking the rules of 1 night stand?IS THERE a rule after one night stand?If you want to be a booty call, then keep doing what you're doing. Otherwise move on with your life. If he's not willing to give you 100%, then he's not worth your time and effort.IS THERE a rule after one night stand?
Well when you have a one night stand thats it no more doing anything now if you want it to be a botty call that means that if you or the other person need some action you guys get to gether. If I were you I would not do anything unless you have feelings for the guy and want to start a relationship.IS THERE a rule after one night stand?Rule. Never have a one-night stand. We have sex to share emotions and to express love and be ourselves for a moment at least. One night stand is using another instead of masturbating. Not right. Get yourself drunk, it is more merciful towards others and it keeps you some dignity.
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I also had a 2night stand :-). And like you, I made the mistake and fell for him. For awhile we were in contact, texting and emails ...but slowly I felt him pull further and further away. I know that by me wanting more than he did, that I needed to back off, or it would hurt more in the long run. Move on, try to forget about him. Maybe one day he will want to see you again, but if not, you'll be ok !!!!!IS THERE a rule after one night stand?Sounds like he dont really wanna be bothered and he sees it as it was a ONE NIGHT STAND.. something you need to do.. you are trying to turn it into something else even if you dont realize you are doing that you are. Leave him alone.. save yourself embarrassment and pain.. he probably thinks ur a ho because of the one night stand.. this is how guys think.IS THERE a rule after one night stand?
Sorry to say it but yes, you are a victim of booty call. Let this guy go and move on. You sound as though you need a more stable and wholesome mate. He wasn't Prince Charming, just another guy who thinks with the wrong head. Good Luck to you in the future.
Yours wasn't a one night stand. You are after him and he has a girl friend and just wants you for an occasional side piece. Give him up and find someone who might want you as a girlfriend.IS THERE a rule after one night stand?
ok you can't have more then one "one night stand" with a guy... any yea you are a booty call thats what a one night stand IS DUH... Move on and find a new person.
Thats not a one night stand. Better let him go coz he's getting laid and you wat do you get in return? To be a doormat.
Yes you are. That's why a one night stand is called that. That is all it is or ever meant to be.
You had your share of fun. If you require more X activity ...go on or go back to to where you were before.
yours isn't a one-night stand. it is a relationship, of sorts!
itz nt one night stand.
Yes a one night stand is suppose to be ONE NIGHT! Your not suppose to chat or really ever see them again. He probably is thinking that the only thing that you could be is a "booty call." You need to just let this one go. He's more than likely never going to want to date you because y'all have already had sex. To a man they think like, "well I've already had her just after 2 nights, how many other guys has she done this with?" Sorry because if you liked him like that, you should have never slept with him so easily!!! Let it go...
he has made it very clear to you that he doesn't want anything more than booty right now...and it seems that you want more than that..unfortunately, we women have a tendency to get attached to someone after sex..even though we really don't know this person at all...and we might not have liked them if we didnt' have sex with them in the first place! I have been in a similar situation before..i was his booty call for a while, hoping that eventually he would open his heart to me. never happened! i found out he actually had several other booty calls! i was devastated..so my advice to you is learn the hard way or save yourself and GET OUT now before your feelings get even more involved.
There are no rules for a one night stand. You were a booty call, plain and simple. If he wanted more than that he's had plenty of time to respond.



Give up on him and go on with your life. You're going to start sounding desperate to him and that's not a good thing.



Unfortunately you've run into one of the problems of dating. When two people have sex more often than not one will become more 'attached' than the other.



It's time for you to walk away.