Last night I went to a party and got really drunk and had a one night stand with this guy?

Thing is I have a bf. I don't know how to tell him. I have never cheated on him and I love him I know there is a possibility that he will leave me. I never meant to do what I did. Please no criticism and thank youLast night I went to a party and got really drunk and had a one night stand with this guy?Do whatever you think is best, you clearly feel very guilty and i think living with it can be punishment enough, is it likely your boyfriend will find out? If not you might cause less damage not telling him and treating it as a terrible mistake you know to never make again, but if u can't keep it from him then just tell him and hope you two can get through it, these things happen pet :( danm alcohol! good luck xLast night I went to a party and got really drunk and had a one night stand with this guy?
No! Don't tell him! Keep it to yourself. What will come out of it. Just treat it as an experience! You've now been there, done that don't do it again. Naughty girl ;0) let us know how you got on.....

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Last night I went to a party and got really drunk and had a one night stand with this guy?I hope you've decided to give up drinking alcohol,or at least curb your drinking.You also need to be honest with your boyfriend,and tell him the truth because, he deserves to know.If the the situation was reversed, you most certainly would want to know,and would want the truth, and he deserves nothing less.You need to take responsibilty for what you did, and hope that you two can work through your issues,Good luck.
FIRST: If what you are saying (I never meant to do what I did) is true, then you should never, ever, drink alcohol again.............why?, because if what is you said is true, then alcohol enables you to do unspeakable things that in your correct state of mind you would never even consider doing much less do them............



SECOND: To request nobody critisize you for this suggest you are wanting someone to somehow justify your actions as if it were not your fault at all.........



THIRD: The fact you are coming here seeking advice should tell you just how immature you are no matter what your age may be................



FOURTH: To even mention the word love after blaming alcohol, in order for you to cheat, on someone that is supposed to mean something to you shold be screaming this to you.............



YOU DONT LOVE THE GUY YOU ARE WORRIED ABOUT TELLING, YOU ARE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING HE DOES NOT GIVE YOU WHICH IS WHY YOU FELL IN THE BED OF ANOTHER, AND ALCOHOL HELPS MASK JUST HOW UNFULFILLED YOUR LIFE AT THIS MOMENT IS...........



Go find whatever it is that makes you happy, just leave other peoples hearts alone.........the sad thing is this guy may actually love you...........Last night I went to a party and got really drunk and had a one night stand with this guy?You need to tell him, hands down. Your relationship would probably change if you tried to live with the guilt. Just be very clear to him that you are sorry, and love him very much. He will be angry, and the ball is in his court if he is willing to be forgiving or not.Last night I went to a party and got really drunk and had a one night stand with this guy?
you need to tell him.



not criticizing you but if i were your bf? i would break up with you in an heartbeat. and its a good thing if he "ONLY" breaks up with you.



yeah you crossed the line
You should be able to get some slack since you were drunk, but you might want to tell him this soon because then he'll really weigh his options. Just make sure you let him know you're sorry and the damage should be minimized.Last night I went to a party and got really drunk and had a one night stand with this guy?
the problem is that women do not keep secrets.the fastest information distribution is internet, telephone an telewoman. just say nothing
That's what alcohol does for you.

You have to tell your boyfriend. Also, get tested for STD's.
if it was a true misjudgement on your part, keep it to yourself
You say,"I've got something bad to tell you. I got drunk on (date) and had sex with a stranger. I've gone to the clinic to be tested for STDs and I will let you know the results when they come back." Then, he gets to decide.



Most likely he will break up with you which is what you deserve. Not because your a bad person but because alcohol is no excuse for poor/bad behavior. Would a drunk driver be forgiven or given a free pass for killing someone with their car? No. Nor should you be forgiven for cheating. You cheated therefore you don't deserve to remain in a loving and trusting relationship.