How do you move on when you found out your partner had a one night stand?

(we are just boyfriend %26amp; girlfriend, however there is no boyfriend %26amp; girlfriend category)



Technically we were separated, technically. But we have an on and off relationship for the past year. We've been together for 3 years and have a child. In April we broke up, his truck broke down so he was borrowing his best friend Tyler's truck for work. Tyler just so happens to be his ex girlfriend's brother.



A long story short, she sleeps with anything that walks, cheated on him a million times, set him up so he went to jail, had a kid and claimed it was his for 2 years until they got a dna test that proved wrong. Ok so they broke up and we started talking afterwards. He said he never loved her, and she was just always there.



So since we first started going out shes always been trying to get him back, and I have always told her to leave him alone. Hes even said that to her. She dont get the point. One night we had a huge fight, he slept over Tyler's house, Since Tyler and his ex are brother and sister they live together. We didnt talk for a week. After that it took about 2 or 3 weeks for us to finally start talking again and go back out. Well, 2 weeks someone shows me a forward from her phone on their conversation saying how he uses her when me and my boyfriend break up and how shes just the back up girl, how they had sex and cuddled and kissed. I read it and cried, we got into a fight and he moved out again. Even though we broke up it hurts like he did cheat. He answered every question I had for him one night, he said sorry, he said he was "drunk" and never thought we would get back together.



We have been talking again, he lives with me, but recently just random memories and pictures of them pop in my head, and I get so mad. Or the thought that what if she gets pregnant from you, even tho he said they used a condom. Its all still fresh in my mind, I need a way to let it go.How do you move on when you found out your partner had a one night stand?it'll all be ok until you get into a fight again - then all hell will break loose because you WILL KNOW where he is going and what he will be doing . . .don't allow him to do this to you . . .it was NOT a one night stand and YOU KNOW ITHow do you move on when you found out your partner had a one night stand?
You're dating, so you aren't separated...



Stop stalking him.How do you move on when you found out your partner had a one night stand?u need to move on give him one chance then u decide if it happens again u have a child to live life with.How do you move on when you found out your partner had a one night stand?
You have no commitment to each other. Stop playing games. Find someone who doesn't want you for just sex and make sure that you use birth control and condoms with every guy you bang. There are already enough unwanted children in the world.How do you move on when you found out your partner had a one night stand?His ex does not sound like the brightest bulb on the tree. Having said that, he knew her, he knew what she was like and he boinked her. Again!

Get tested for ALL std's (doesn't matter that he used a condom if she's that skanky) and move on. If he is using the "drunk" excuse, he's not ready to accept responsibility for his role in the act.

btw, your b.f. kinda sounds like a dick.How do you move on when you found out your partner had a one night stand?
you wont be able to move on for awhile because thats to fast so just be single or jus go on dates but dnt go out with them n jus explore till that rite one kumes
You don't move on after cheating - you move out! And it also sounds like, even though there is a child involved, that neither of you is ready for a serious committed relationship. You should probably take a break from him - or other possible romantic relationships for a while and concentrate on your child. If you see him when he visits the child, it should be as a friend. SOme day when you've both grown up a little, you MIGHT work this out. Or you may eventually decide that you've grown up %26amp; he hasn't - then you can eventually move on to a real relationship with someone who knows what commitment means. Right now all this drama with him and the ex sounds like something out of a soap opera - or a high school gym class. Is this really what you want - to raise your child while you and his father act like kids? Someone needs to be the grown up here!