Is it possible to meet a lesbian who is really looking for a relationship and not a one night stand?

I'm only 20 and I've only dated one girl. She's 14 years older than me and has completely different goals in life than I do. I just feel like it's impossible to meet someone who is actually looking for a real relationship and not just someone to mess around with for a night. I know Im not really experienced with dating women and I haven't been to the gay bars a lot since I'm only 20 but it seems like since the gay community is smaller it has a rep for people just sleeping around and everyones been with everyone else. Is that how it is? or is there anyone out there that actually wants love?!?! I feel like Ill never find what Im looking for ! :-(Is it possible to meet a lesbian who is really looking for a relationship and not a one night stand?Are you kidding me? Most of the lesbians I know and have ever met want a LTR. I have only met a very few butches/dykes that want strictly casual sex.



Maybe you need a change of scenery as far as where you hang out...?



the first lesbian joke I ever heard is :"what does a lesbian bring on a first date?...A U-haul...Is it possible to meet a lesbian who is really looking for a relationship and not a one night stand?
Stop looking for relationships in bars. Its not the place for it, most bar scenes are just for hooking up. My suggestion is to join a group or organization, its a great way to meet people with similar interest as you. Also you'll find that they are not after a hook up!Is it possible to meet a lesbian who is really looking for a relationship and not a one night stand?If you're looking for a relationship, you probably won't find it in a club/bar. Try downelink.com you'll find some women in your area looking for the same things you are.



Just give it time.Is it possible to meet a lesbian who is really looking for a relationship and not a one night stand?
Certainly. I believe in monogamy, and I definitely don't like/want one night stands.

Perhaps you're looking in 'all the wrong places'.

Is it possible to meet a lesbian who is really looking for a relationship and not a one night stand?Don't they usually? It's gay men that do the one night stands much more.