Sunday, February 5, 2012

After a one night stand should I call him?

Okay so here's the deal. This dude is a guy I have met a few times. He works with one of my best friends and in the past has asked him about me. Hes bought me drinks once or twice while we where all out together but it hadn't escalated past that. So anyhow yesterday evening we where all hanging out drinking beers having a good time and he was obviously making an effort to talk to me and what not. So much so that he actually asked my friend if he was dating me and what my deal was... anyhow the night continues things are rolling then he asks me for a ride home. He lives like three blocks from the house we where at and i was a bit confused but i agreed. So i dropped him off and we parted ways. So i went home and i got a text from my friend that said why didn't you go home with him that's what he wanted! and i was like he didn't articulate that so i just went home a minute later the guy calls me and asks me if i want to come back over and listen to some records. I agree because I'm bored in my apartment and I head on over. We listen to music and talk for 7 hours. He asks me to give him a back rub i do we flirted a bit nothing major. We kissed once, then both looked at the clock and it was 6 am. Now being the woman I am i should have headed home but in my exhausted state i obliged to stay when he offered me his bed. We ended up having sober sex twice. And i had to wake up early the next morning for class. I got dressed told him i had a good time and we should do it again. Not really solidifying anything. Plus, i cleared out of there wicked fast (i hope i didn't give him the wrong impression). Now, it hasn't even been 24 hours so i don't expect him to make contact quite yet or plan on making contact until Sunday... but according to my friend he walked into work with a huge grin on his face and thanked him.... Anyhow I guess why I'm writing this is to ask what would you do and for you men out there what do you think this all means?Is he shy or not interested? Should I even bother. I don't feel like getting into anything too serious but it would be nice to grab a beer or something at some point. Would calling to ask for that be annoying? I would like to talk to him again he seemed like a cool dude. Is that clingy? What are your thoughts, I'd love to know. Cheers.After a one night stand should I call him?No don't call him.. Move on.. Show him you don't care.. Guys are @ssholes..we need to play them at their own game.. Suckers!!After a one night stand should I call him?
call him see how he acts, and if its on than the sex was good my one night stand it going on 3 yrs and he is calling me all the time... good luck...After a one night stand should I call him?Let him call you.After a one night stand should I call him?
Let him hit you upAfter a one night stand should I call him?Well if he did like you as in wanting a relationship.. he may have lost respect for you since you had sex with him and you two weren't dating or anything. Or he may have just wanted to hit it n quit it.. or he may genuinely like you and will call you or contact you when he gets the chance.. there no for sure way of knowing until a few days go by and you talk with him... if he doesn't contact you you should contact him (if you like him)

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