Sunday, February 12, 2012

Can a guy get serious with a girl who had a one night stand with a friend?

Ok i need help asap so i met this girl Nina through a really good friend of mine i knew of her prior to being introduced because my friend Ron had been trying to get with her for close to a year. so ofcourse she's really hott..so he finally scores an gives me all the details (no orall sex)of the night cuz as i stated he's a pretty close friend of mine..he tells how she wasnt really into it an had kind of a lets get it over with mentality an felt bad cuz she was at the end of a long relationship. so about a month after their night he takes me to a party where i meet her for the first time later on that week me and ron ended up driving out to her house to visit her an one of her girls. Ok now it gets intresting so upon waking up that morning i ask ron wat went down with nina last night?? he's pretty annoyed an goes on to tell me something was up with her cuz she simply would not put out that night! lol so we laugh an go over what could have been wrong with her..Ok that night Ron calls me all excited an **** Telln me that nina wanted ron to hook us up (she is completley unaware that i know about her 1 night with ron)im like cool so he gives me the number an in no time she's at my beck an call i mean this girl was doing anything i asked giving me Facebook passwords Changed her number for me wants me to move in an all that good stuff just trying to earn my complete trust you know. my first intentions were clearly not to get too involved because of the ron situation but after really gettin to know her i caught feelings for her i mean she's jus so sweet the type a girl who would unconditionally love an do anything for a Boyfreind u know..anyway i eventually drag the event with her an ron out of her an she's honest about the whole night gets all worried about losin me an says how much she regrets it an all that stuff..now this is where it gets tricky..At first it really didnt matter cuz i knew of everything that had happened before i made the choice of pursuing this girl..but as soon as 2 of ma loser friends caught wind of it i didnt hear the end of how i shouldnt make her a serious girlfriend knowing she had a 1 night stand with my buddy so things were said an i got all pissed an havent really spoken to the 2 loser friends lately but they had some valid points i agreed on an really bother me somtimes..like the fact that if me an this girl ever got married she has been with one of my friends. idk what to do i really care about this girl an what maks me really mad is b4 i heard the opinions of my loser friends i didnt think twice i was crazy about this girl!! an that makes me feel extremely mentally weak how they got in my head like that..i mean she didnt even know i existed when her an ron hooked up but the cold hard fact remains she's been with a friend of mine.im 22 yrs old..she means so much to me but i dont wanna take a path now that i will really regret later on in life..i really need opinionsCan a guy get serious with a girl who had a one night stand with a friend?K well when you say loser friends and love this girl I think you have your answer! Like you said u knew this happened before you pursued a relationship with her. I know it isn't the best picture to see in your head with your girl and your friend but stuff happens. One night stand is exactly that a one night stand! He will never know her the way you do and he will never know you the way she does. If it bugs you that much drop the friend. You can't build a life or a future with him.Can a guy get serious with a girl who had a one night stand with a friend?{{{{{{{YES}}}}}}}Can a guy get serious with a girl who had a one night stand with a friend?that could have been summed up in like 3 sentences. I could never date someone that banged a friend of mine. but that's me. u make ur own call.

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