My bf and I mutually broke up & we were in good terms then one night he goes "I hate your guts"?

so we break up monday morning and he kept hugging me and then saying I dont know if I can do this. I'm starring at him like I never hugged him yet he's rejecting me as if I want him back. He says hes so over the onling dating scene cause I had a feeling he was talking to someone.. in fact, he went to the beach where he lives and talked to one girl AND another one from online. So now, he promised me hed be online on Monday night and instead he talks to these girls. I started telling the girls how we just broke up and he was touching me and turns out all at the same time talking to them. One of the girls says he acts real weird as in he would text them saying "I cant wait to see u this weekend were gonna be on an adventure". When she tells me she never said yes to anything nor did he ask. Next, I believe hes bipolar cause it runs in his genes (his mom). Then on friday, he tells me that a girl stood him up %26amp; I get mad and he changes his password cause he knows I saw him talking to the girls. I told him to call me so I can tell him what he can do with his life %26amp; he acts real immature and goes "nah not worth my time. cant. im busy. im busy. really really busy please." really redundant which is dumb. then, I ask why hes calling me and he says "I love ya personality". then, he tells me he'll get me windows 7.. he passes out and apologizes and tells me that the sun killed all the bacteria off his back when skateboarding? Then, sunday i call him and asked him about Windows 7 and he goes that he cant help me and he says he wants to be a samurai with a sword... and at that point I think he's crazy. My friends were like hes just kidding and then in reality, he told all his roommates that he will get that sword.. and I think his best friend since he was born kicked him out of the house. Also, during the breakup he said hed take me to six flags like he promised as FRIENDS only. But now, on monday night I didnt talk to him I was out and he didnt know. He calls me at 11:45PM and goes hey how r u? Im like"alright" and hes like "you know how i say random stuff to random people" and im like yeah... and hes like "well I hate your guts" *hangs up* after all of this drama, he goes and blocks me off aim then unblocks me then deletes me so he doesnt see me on his buddylist. and 1 week later.. he deletes me off his skype lol which was next Tuesday (yesterday).



I want to know what is going on?

What he thinks of me?

Does he care about the online and beach girls more is that why he hates me?

Or is it cause I do not care about him or act that way and didnt contact him for 1 week after he said he hated me?

I got angry and put a status saying "You hate me. You love me. Yet, you did wrong to me. So F you and F your drama" and he signed on right away onto AIM and skype. but I still didnt sign on that was the morning after he said I hate your guts.



Is he bipolar?



I don't know I'm so confused and I cant even concentrate in school cause of this problem. People tell me to forget but I cant. I just cant. IDK what to do. cause yesterday i got food near his area and I thought I should see if hes there.. I know now he was definitely kicked out of his best friends house. and he is really serious about getting the sword he even said to his friend: "dont worry i would never harm someone close to me. and that u might end up helping me one day, maybe knowingly or unknowingly" his friend goes: "if its for a good cause then ya." I dont know what to think someone help me and dont just say forget about him I need real help I appreciate it and what should I do as a person he signs on everyday now on AIM. but Im the only one that can IM him first.My bf and I mutually broke up %26amp; we were in good terms then one night he goes "I hate your guts"?I really don't think he hates you. I think he doesn't know what he wants, and he's angry at himself for it. He wants you back, but he's fighting himself because he knows he made a mistake. He's angry and feels stupid, and he's taking that anger out on you by trying to slap you down. Don't let him. If you're confident in yourself, he'll come back to you, with good intentions. Maybe give him one more call and ask him what happened. If he doesn't pick up, call one more time. If he doesn't pick up that time, leave him alone for a week or two, and try again.



I really think he still loves you, but he's confused. Just give it time, hun. You'll be okay.(:My bf and I mutually broke up %26amp; we were in good terms then one night he goes "I hate your guts"?
That guy is MESSED up o.o. And I know you don't want to see this, but, you should try to forget about him. It is definitely hard to, but it can be done. If you're in school, bury yourself in schoolwork. if you have a job, work overtime if possible, or at least become as actively involved in your job as possible to help forget him. Pretty soon, you'll have a full plate and won't have time to worry about him. However, he may actually be trying to get over you also, as after a breakup, people tend to have hateful thoughts about each other, as you said he said 'Well I hate your guts.' IMO, he's just being a guy and trying to get rid of you. Those other girls will have to deal with his problems, not you. You should take all precautions not to talk to him anymore. After a bit of time, it seems like he might become abusive, or unpredictable in his actions.



FYI also, he is NOT bipolar. He is not immediately switching moods very deeply, (extremely visibly happy and excited one moment, to very angry and harmful the next moment, literally) he's just being dumb with you. He also does not have MPD (Multiple Personality Disorder). People talk about those things all the time without knowing what they truly are.



However, this is just my opinion and advice. Pick whatever fancies you. I just hate seeing women in predicaments like this.My bf and I mutually broke up %26amp; we were in good terms then one night he goes "I hate your guts"?I think he's hurt from the break up; and he's building a wall in reaction. He says he'll see other girls to make you think he's already okay and over you; but his other actions seem to say otherwise.

Are you sure the breakup was MUTUAL? Or did you just perceive it like that but he maybe thinks that YOU broke up with HIM?

It could be a lot of stuff.

About being bipolar; sorry I don't really know if it is transmitted genetically!!

But I hope I helped a bit!
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includes the solution to your problemMy bf and I mutually broke up %26amp; we were in good terms then one night he goes "I hate your guts"?Oh, you wrote toooo much!

I want to know how you talked to the girls he talks to online.

If he hates your guts, then you don't have to talk to him any more.My bf and I mutually broke up %26amp; we were in good terms then one night he goes "I hate your guts"?
He is still hurting. The "mutual" break-up was probably just a front for his machismo and ego. He cares and it's killing him. Give him time, he'll get over it.
im sorry i didnt read this its WAY WAY WAY too long and no one is going to answer this question

shorten it up and then youll get answers

sorry im not trying to be a *****My bf and I mutually broke up %26amp; we were in good terms then one night he goes "I hate your guts"?
I had trouble reading this, but from what I did read, it seems like you are being played by a crazy guy. So what does that say about you? Get over it, drop it, there are a billion other dudes out there looking to hook up with you! So get over it before you get labeled "crazy girl that likes crazy guy." Fo real.

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