Thursday, February 9, 2012

How can my BF fall out of love over night? I'm so hurt.?

I'm so confused and hurt. My bf seemed fine... we joked and laughed and I was his baby and then all of a sudden all he wanted to do was go out til all hours of the night with his one guy friend and drink. And spend all his time with him. And he got mad at my for everything and screamed at me and berated me and pushed me around. Then one night he didn't come home and I called him and he said he was sleeping at his friends house and when I got sad he said we were over. Now he says we are over and he just wants to be alone. He said he was lying when he said he loved me. I told him I'm so hurt and he doesn't care. I did so much for him. I cleaned and cooked and di all his laundry. I bought him so much stuff. And he tells me I was obsessed with him. II just don't understand how he can go from hugging me and calling me his baby and loving me and telling me I'm great to treating me like this and saying he wants to be all alone. I put up with a lot and never left him. When he got drunk one night and said I made him want to beat the **** out of me I still stood by him. But all he wanted to do is always be with his on guy friend. Doing everything with him and talking to him more than me. He told me I was not important, and I'm so hurt. I just want him back so much. We were together for 1 1/2 years. This week he went out and my phone died and I ended up in the hospital for a few days and couldn't get a hold of him and when I finally did he said he wasn't even worried about me. I just wish I knew what I did that was so wrong that he is being this way? I did everything he demanded of me and still I was no good for him. :(How can my BF fall out of love over night? I'm so hurt.?It sounds like hes been unhappy for a while and the alcohol just gave him the courage to say what he really thinks...



look hun, dont feel bad, he probably did at first but maybe not to the level you did.. girls seem to go into this deeper and more emotionally then guys thats a given, so its no great surprise hes suddenly come to the conclusion it isnt for him



yes you did alot for him and he took that for granted, of course he didnt appreciate that hes a guy! you gave more then he did and he doesnt care now...now if he was to grow a heart and apologise for hes behaviour and not blame the alcohol then fine accept it and move on from him...



if he doesnt, leave him be know you did right and not anything bad and if he gets off hes merry go around with hes bad friends and boozing late nights and suddenly realises he had it good let him come to you and tell you so and then think about it...... you may not want to because hopefully by then you would of realised your too good for hes kind of love........



your worthy of more then what he has to offer hun... relationships are more then about physical attraction, its give and take, its communication, its compromising..if he cant do that hun, im sorry dont waste the best years of your life

there are so many who would give their right arm for a girl so self sacrificing like you..



take care

:)How can my BF fall out of love over night? I'm so hurt.?
mm, he is very depressed for whatever reasons

he treats you like a tool

it is better off for BOTH of you that you broke up.How can my BF fall out of love over night? I'm so hurt.?Hiiii dude, all i can say is, just leave him alone..... let him **** offfffffff.... love d one who loves u.....How can my BF fall out of love over night? I'm so hurt.?
sorry that happened to you, it really sucks breaking up but believe me you will get over it and be happy again. sometimes it doesent matter how much you invest in the relationship it just wont work, if you need someone to talk to you can message me. its hard going through a break up cause you cant express urself, pm me if you want i can help if u need it ;)How can my BF fall out of love over night? I'm so hurt.?I'm sorry. I know you are hurting and understandably feeling betrayed as you gave a lot to this relationship but he is the loser. He will find out that not all girls want to cook and clean for him. He will have a surprise in the future dating other girls.



He sounds immature and thinks that time is on his side and he can do what he likes. He sounds arrogant. However, arrogant people meet their match eventually. What goes around comes around.



Take up all other invites to go out and meet other people. Then you will not focus and think too much about this person.



Good luck
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