I lost my virginity on a one night stand? Why would he put so much effort and then randomly stop calling?

About a month ago I made a HUGE mistake.



I got out of a long term relationship and I was hurt. A week after the breakup I met this guy, Jason. 2 days after we met we hung out and went to his friends party. He was super sweet to me. I ended up drinking a bit at the party but the alcohol hit me harder than usual because i didn't realize i was drinking on an empty stomach. That night I ended up sleeping at his place and lost my virginity that i've been saving for THE one for 19 years. He didn't even know i was a virgin until he had trouble fitting it in. When I told him he stopped said "WOW, I NEVER knew that" and stopped and layed on my chest. He then a few minutes later said "that's so hot" and continued. After he found out i was a virgin he seemed VERY uncomfortable and not as sure as himself as before. When his thing would slip out he'd like try putting it back in but wouldn't even be close to the whole. He'd then have this like nervous laugh. He then stopped because he was "tired" and then took me in his arms intervined our legs and held onto me and cuddled. He then even seemed very uncomfortable after he got up being naked and all and having an erection.



After we had sex we watched movies until 5 in the morning cuddling with blankets. He was still super sweet. When we went to bed he also was still super sweet and very thoughtful asking me if i was cold, wanted another pillow etc. The next morning he was even sweeter and took me out for breakfast. We then watched some more movies cuddled. He just seemed to want to impress me. Like just say id be like "i want to be a teacher, because i love kids" he'd be like "i love kids to, id be a good dad, i want 2 kids, im so good with kids".



When my mom picked me up the next day he even wanted to meet her and seemed nervous. He made me say my goodbye at the door to him because he didnt want to do that infront of my mom. He even asked for my my home # and called me 2 days later. We talked for like an hour but I said alot of things i regret. When he asked me what my mom thought of him I said she said nothing bad about him. He then asked me if I told my mom what happened with us and I told him I did and she cried a bit and i almost did to. He responded with "holy sh it" I also told him that i think 6 months is to early for sex and that i was always scared of loosing my virginity because i didnt want to be disrespected or used. I also told him that it was TOTALLY out of my character to do what i did with him. I also told him that "i cant believe i did something so stupid, well not stupid because that sounds harsh but like not myself"



He never called me back and when i seen him at our College i said "heyy" and he said "wussuppp" and i gave him a dirty look and looked away. The next time i saw him he just looked down and kept his head down and acted like he didnt see me and headed to his bus. Then when his back was to me i saw him from the corner of my eye peek over his shoulder and look at me.



Hes 21 btw



What do you think of this?

Thanks!I lost my virginity on a one night stand? Why would he put so much effort and then randomly stop calling?I would freak out if a guy acted like you did after i had sex with him. It would scare the life out of me. You are making a big deal out of nothing and you have come across as a complete psycho. Sex isnt this big deal you make it out to be and it sounds like he liked you (as he called your house phone after) but you have completely freaked him outI lost my virginity on a one night stand? Why would he put so much effort and then randomly stop calling?
maybe he thinks you are too much hard work

or you weren't interested

or you regretted itI lost my virginity on a one night stand? Why would he put so much effort and then randomly stop calling?It sounds like he is nervous that you regretted it or that he thinks you think he was lousy at it and he is embarrassed.I lost my virginity on a one night stand? Why would he put so much effort and then randomly stop calling?
well this was a nice interesting story



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do you like him%26gt;?

would you like to be iwth him

why dont you go out %26amp; hang out with him for a while %26amp; see

talk ot him what he thinks about all this..I lost my virginity on a one night stand? Why would he put so much effort and then randomly stop calling?I think he was contacted by your parents -judging by their reaction.



The way you described his walking (head down etc.) makes me think he feels guilty and this is a clear indicator that someone else is holding his noose.



Ask your parents if they had a word with him and if they did then you might try talking to 'Jason' about it and telling him that it's all right.I lost my virginity on a one night stand? Why would he put so much effort and then randomly stop calling?
May be he is doing this because you told that you are regretted. Be frank with yourself first. Are you serious about him? If yes then don't feel guilty and talk with him.
I suggest to call him and propose him to talk,say that you didn't have much experience,especially sexual experience,and you would like to know more.

I think he's not a monster,so you have nothing to lose,know each other better,try to act like girlfriend and boyfriend.

Maybe in time he will be your husband,who knows?

So try to have at least a relation with him,otherwise you lost your virginity in vain.

Take care