I lost my virginity on a one night stand? What do you honestly think about all of this?

About a month ago I made a HUGE mistake.



I got out of a long term relationship and I was hurt. A week after the breakup I met this guy, Jason. 2 days after we met we hung out and went to his friends party. He was super sweet to me. I ended up drinking a bit at the party but the alcohol hit me harder than usual because i didn't realize i was drinking on an empty stomach. That night I ended up sleeping at his place and lost my virginity that i've been saving for THE one for 19 years. He didn't even know i was a virgin until he had trouble fitting it in. When I told him he stopped said "WOW, I NEVER knew that" and stopped and layed on my chest. He then a few minutes later said "that's so hot" and continued. After he found out i was a virgin he seemed VERY uncomfortable and not as sure as himself as before. When his thing would slip out he'd like try putting it back in but wouldn't even be close to the whole. He'd then have this like nervous laugh. He then stopped because he was "tired" and then took me in his arms intervined our legs and held onto me and cuddled. He then even seemed very uncomfortable after he got up being naked and all and having an erection.



After we had sex we watched movies until 5 in the morning cuddling with blankets. He was still super sweet. When we went to bed he also was still super sweet and very thoughtful asking me if i was cold, wanted another pillow etc. The next morning he was even sweeter and took me out for breakfast. We then watched some more movies cuddled. He just seemed to want to impress me. Like just say id be like "i want to be a teacher, because i love kids" he'd be like "i love kids to, id be a good dad, i want 2 kids, im so good with kids".



When my mom picked me up the next day he even wanted to meet her and seemed nervous. He made me say my goodbye at the door to him because he didnt want to do that infront of my mom. He even asked for my my home # and called me 2 days later. We talked for like an hour but I said alot of things i regret. When he asked me what my mom thought of him I said she said nothing bad about him. He then asked me if I told my mom what happened with us and I told him I did and she cried a bit and i almost did to. He responded with "holy sh it" I also told him that i think 6 months is to early for sex and that i was always scared of loosing my virginity because i didnt want to be disrespected or used. I also told him that it was TOTALLY out of my character to do what i did with him. I also told him that "i cant believe i did something so stupid, well not stupid because that sounds harsh but like not myself"



He never called me back and when i seen him at our College i said "heyy" and he said "wussuppp" and i gave him a dirty look and looked away. The next time i saw him he just looked down and kept his head down and acted like he didnt see me and headed to his bus. Then when his back was to me i saw him from the corner of my eye peek over his shoulder and look at me.



Hes 21 btw



What do you think of this?

Thanks!I lost my virginity on a one night stand? What do you honestly think about all of this?He's 21 and normal. So are you. It's tough, but if you tell a guy you cried about sleeping with him, he's probably really really embarassed. His pride is hurt, and unfortunately, he is not mature enough to see that was his chance to say, "Oh, it wasn't a mistake, it was beautiful. . ." or some such thing. He wants a girl who just can't get enough of him, and you need someone more nurturing. Trust me, not every guy you sleep with, date, or even someday live with, is going to end up being the "one." Its cool, and it will happen again, only it won't hurt as much.I lost my virginity on a one night stand? What do you honestly think about all of this?
pretend like it never happened and move on. Thats the best thing you can do.



please answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>I lost my virginity on a one night stand? What do you honestly think about all of this?He's mortified that your mom knows.
that's life.



People do dumb stuff.



Best to not dwell and mope about the past and just move onI lost my virginity on a one night stand? What do you honestly think about all of this?dont cry over spilled milkI lost my virginity on a one night stand? What do you honestly think about all of this?
Well it sounds like you both really like each other! Did you actually have sex or did it not 'work'?! What's done is done. I think this guy seems really nice and doesn't seem like a jerk. He didn't pressurize you into having sex. And I don't believe he would, from the sound sof things if you got involved with him :)
mistakes happen, wats important is that you learn from them and make better judgements in the future. he was kind while u were there in order to keep you comfortable but hes not good for you. live ur life, learn the lesson, and dont be afraid to let go.I lost my virginity on a one night stand? What do you honestly think about all of this?
i guess after all the things u said like that was a stupid thing to do, he may feel hurt, if u really want this relatoinship so try to explain to him, if not, just let it go
its better to not think about all this...that night is gone and so is ur virginity...so baby keep up the spirit ..mayb u can have fun with that guy and who knows it may turn onto a serious relationship.
it was a mistake. people aren't perfect. after hearing all that and what he did it sounded like he felt he had to (how do i explain this?) like stay with you since it was your virginity. like it's a bond or some ****. it's hard to explain. like something special even though it was a one night stand. and i don't think it's a one night stand. isn't a one night stand like when you have sex with someone and never see them again? but ANYWAYS it's over. Just move on with your life.
just let the past thing go..

go on with your life...

this what call 'LIFE'..

even that didn't happened on that night but someday also will happen so take it easy^^
We all do things that later we feel wasn't right. You cannot change it so move on - decide whether you will do it again. Regrets stuff you up - don't have them - learn from them