If you had a one night stand and you never saw the guy, you got pregnant and..?

if you had a one night stand and you never saw the guy, you got pregnant and the only one who takes care of you is your dearest guy friend he cooks for you, rent you a house does everything he told you he loves you but you won't answer, he takes care of your baby after 6 years you saw the guy (one night stand) and you found out that he's looking for you and proposed to you what are you going to do are you going to tell him about the baby? how about your guy friend?If you had a one night stand and you never saw the guy, you got pregnant and..?You have the needs of youand your baby taken care of by a guy who obviously loves and cares for you both and you are willing to throw it away and gamble yours and the baby's future on someone who you know nothing about except that he produces sperm? How do you know he does not have other women out there in the sanme situation?

Stay with the one who has proven himself again %26amp; againIf you had a one night stand and you never saw the guy, you got pregnant and..?
u should already kno the answear to this the guy who always been there for u goin with this other guy is crazy he maybe the next osma bin laden ight ya guy friend must be the best chocieIf you had a one night stand and you never saw the guy, you got pregnant and..?find out who it is use dna ...ask around
you stick with the guy friend the one who has had your back threw it all turn down theproposal because when he finds out about the baby hes gone again this guy friend will be crushed tell the real father and a dna test done and let him know look this personhas been here from day 1 and this is the only father my baby knows nowif you want to be a part your more than welcome but as for me and you no telling the friend i love you wouldn't be bad just say i love will but not the way you love me you never know maybe one day you will fall in love with him everything happens in timeIf you had a one night stand and you never saw the guy, you got pregnant and..?Full disclosure....honesty is the only way. Marrying someone just because you have a baby together isn't a good idea...

Keep in mind that you aren't only deciding for yourself....but most importantly your baby.If you had a one night stand and you never saw the guy, you got pregnant and..?
I think your stupid for even think of leaving where you are at now
You have what you need without looking any farther.

It`s probably not going to be an upgrade with this other guy.

If you where a one night stand, there were possibly many others.

Think about.If you had a one night stand and you never saw the guy, you got pregnant and..?
You have posed a good question. I feel you should go with the responsible one who is the defacto father and supporter of the child. Actions speak louder than words. I am the father of two daughters who were conceived by a sperm donor. They know i adopted them but that matters not as I am the father that they love to torture, torment and kill for.
This is difficult. But the most obvious answer for whomever may be going through this is to stick with the one who has loved you no matter what. It does matter a tiny bit that that person has been looking for you as far as him wanting to be in his child's life, or even finding out that he has a child. But why risk leaving someone wonderful to go with someone you had one night of passion with and never called, nor spoke to for so long? :) I wish "whoever" luck with this situation.
its a difficult situation your in, do you love your baby?

(hears a lyric of a song for you-----i wish i could have a Mommy and Dad but i don't you i don't, oh baby now that I'm here with you ........i will mend your broken heart, baby who is your very best friend, you are. tra la la la la la..........
do you love your guy friend?had you ever tried to look for the one night stand when you found out you were pregnant?



i would say,your guy friend is one great man,cheers for him
Choose the one you loved the most and the guy who is responsible enough that makes you happy and a good husband in the future!
I'm sorry to hear what you are going trough,but just pray to God and he will give you an answer.
its only right to tell the father of the baby hes a daddy but as far as going any further than that no way your other friend has so much love for you and that baby he could have left you on your own to figure out how to raise that baby .he didn't he took a chance on you and now you need to take chance on him its only right good luck with how ever witch way you go
You had this one night stand 6 yrs ago and apparently that's all it was. Even though a baby came out of it, you still really don't know this guy. Why would he want to marry you not knowing who you really are in the first place? I think that would be a really dumb move...You should stay with the guy who is taking care of you and your baby...But only if you want to be with him...Pray about it and keep an open heart. God will send you the answers...
first off wowww that crazy i would tell him about the baby and see what happens from there but i think you will be better off with the guy friend
The whole "Drama-Team" needs to head back to school. Earn a respectable living from gaining an education. Therefor, you would be too busy, as not to interfere with "others" BUSINESS!!!!
well it all depends on that guy friend and if u had, has, or have something with him why he treating u like this (i take my hat off to u girl, u got it all). but u do have a child for this other and the thing about it is, he proposed to u, i think u should tell him about it so he would know and help u take care of his child he deserves to know. and as for ur decision, that is tough and the fact that u didnt tell ur guy friend that u love him means u dont want to get into anything serious with him but u appreciate everything u do and if u leave him he will be heart broken but try to make him understand.



if u and the guy friend has nothing going on, dont rush into anything with this O N S guy, just go out with him and ur child and let him get attached to his child and see where it goes from there
If the baby is his he has the right to know. Sounds like to me you are confused. You have a great guy friend he takes care of you and supports you and your baby. You have it good I wouldn't mess it up. Think about what you want to do
Tell him about the baby. he has a right to know. It sounds like God has already provided a father for the child (guy friend). where is the heart with friend or stand?



I'll pray for the situation.
I think there is a movie just like this...
I feel no matter what the guy has the right to know he's a daddy. Your child has the right to know both parents and you deserve help. The friend you speak about....if you don't love him like a boyfriend let him know so he can put some of his energy into finding himself a soul mate. Good luck with every thing you do!

As for the one night stand asking you to marry him I would say no. If he doesn't know you have a child what the hell is he wanting to marry you for? He obviously doesn't know you.
Just be honest
Go with your guy friend. He has sacrificed so much for your love and for a child that isn't his. The one night stand guy only knows about you through sex and in my book thats not a good way to know someone.
See how it goes with the father, and be totally honest with him. This guy friend deserves a lot more though after all he has done, just take that into consideration.



hope that helps :) x
If he propose to you he would know about the baby by then
i wouldnt have had a one night stand in the first place.and i dont care how aroused i wuz .if i aint seen the dude in 6 yrs i wouldnt marry him. i just be gettin his *** 4 child support. but the other dude, i would marry him
What had happen to you was a one night mistake and there you become pregnant, to make the matter worse guy has disappeared.



Why don't you forget the (one night stand) guy and propose the guy who is looking after you and your baby. Even if the (one night stand) comes back after years, just inform him about his baby but never allow him to get back into your life.



Am so sorry babie
poor u...
Always stick by the one who stuck by you.
c 1. ask ur baby's actual father to like just F*** off nd 2.tell him tat uve got sumbody better than him.try to make him jealous3.stik to ur guy frnd u would never find nebody else like him.