One night stand is pregnant?

I went to a party months ago after i had just broke up with my longtime girlfriend Kayley. I met this real hot and funny girl there. I told her how much i love Kayley but i couldn't stand her pressuring me to an engagement I'm only 21. She was really supportive and listened to me. She told me she could take my mind off of her and starting seducing me. Eventually we made love. I hadn't talked to or since her since that night. Until today when she showed up at my house telling me she was pregnant with my baby. I'm not happy Kayley and i agreed to meet tonight for dinner and see if there is any chance of us getting back together. I asked her if she was sure and she said she was positive it is my baby. I told her to give me her number and we will stay in touch. She did and then lave. I'm scared to death i don't want a baby especially with someone i barley know. This will also ruin my chances with Kayley i love her and want her to be my wife and mother of my children someday. Should i help her with the baby and should i tell Kayley?One night stand is pregnant?First of all calm down,ok if you 2 slept together like that how do you know shes not like that with everyone?

2.Get a DNA test done as soon as the baby is born you'll have to pay for it but get it done ,you get it done at the child support office they will help you .Has it been 9 months or longer since you seen her?

I think if you truely love Kayley you owe it to her to tell her the whole truth ,even from you talking about your feelings about the situation with Kayley that got you in that mess in the first place ok.

And tell her your going to get a DNA test as soon as the baby is here.

So to be on the safe side keep incontact with her about the baby.

And only about the baby.

Get pics of the baby for just incase you don't want to end up the father and you have nothing for yourself.

She'll get pics from ultrasounds.

If the baby ends up not being yours give back pics.

I would start saving baby money for when its here,but don't buy anything for just incase but at least you'd be prepared.

If Kayley still wants you see if she wants to be part of the process of the girls pregnancy with you .

Cause if it is your s and yo uand Kayley are together your going to have baby with yo ufrom time to time.And tell Kayley you want her to be apart of it and that it would mean alot to you .

Let her know you don't and didn't love that other girl and that you swear it was only one mess up and your so sorry.

Go out with Kayley tonight as planned but you have to tell her tonight because if you wait she might get upset by you knowing and not telling and she'll loose trust in you .

I think you 2 will be ok .Tell Kayley you want to marry her.And make things right.

If the baby is yours you have every right as dad to be there every step of the way for baby not that slut.One night stand is pregnant?
C Green is right. I was in the exact same situation years ago and didn't do the right thing for the same reasons you are talking about and to this day I REGRET it. I should have told my current girl friend and taken the responsibility for the girl I got pregnant. If my gf didn't stay with me for that then she wasn't the person I should marry anyway. But I was afraid of loosing her. I was wrong.One night stand is pregnant?Keep in touch with this girl. Get a paternity test after the baby is born. If this IS your child, you have financial obligations. And be honest with Kayley. If you have to tell her later that you have a kid, you'll never have a chance -- she'll be GONE.One night stand is pregnant?
i think u should tell kayley at least u wont be lying to her about it and u should maybe check on the other girl and see wats up with the pregnancy and if u tell the truth then u she maybe will trust u if u don't have trust then u don't have nothing?One night stand is pregnant?And this is when I, a 13 year old come in, and say, yup, I'm more responsible than you.

I guess it's time for Maury.One night stand is pregnant?
Girls lie sometimes. Ask this girl for conformation from her doctor and if she is get a pat test.
Yes, you need to keep in touch with this woman. If she truly is pregnant, you need to make sure she has a place to stay, eat, etc. Once the baby is born, you have to do a paternity test to make sure the baby is yours. If he/she is, then you have financial obligations to the child, not to mention that you should just be the best father you could be.

As for Kayley, you should definitely tell her. If you love this woman, you should certainly not lie to her or keep the truth from her. She will greatly appreciate your honesty.



Good luck!