What do you think of one night stands?

if both people want it; are honest with eachother; no one gets hurt; and you dont get an STI. its still not as good as doing it with some one you love right?What do you think of one night stands?Sometimes, although rarely, one night stand can be amazing sex, sex that you wouldn't otherwise do with someone you love. However usually it is not. Usually it is a lot worse, since you don't know how each others body works, what the other likes or dislikes, and it may feel awkward the first time.



If you know the person you are having sex with, and you like her, the sex can get so much better!What do you think of one night stands?
Not neccessarily. I've had some amazing sex even though I wasn't in love.



It all depends on your own personal preference. Sometimes having sex isn't always about "love".What do you think of one night stands?Right is right, one night stands are never good, ok you get the quick fix but thats all it is, it isnt half as good actually id even say not even 1 tenth as good as with someone you love, it just aint the same.
Not very goodWhat do you think of one night stands?it's just wrongWhat do you think of one night stands?
I love my fiance very much and when we make love its absolutely wonderful, a beautiful thing that I enjoy very very much. However... Its just not the same as the passion and raw energy you can get from a one night stand. I plan on being married for life, so I know I'll never have one again, but they were wonderful.
right but only by a million milesWhat do you think of one night stands?
I think you sometime gotta do,what ya gotta do to get some!As long as your careful,It's nobodies business!
right but you never have to look at that person again if you choose not to
I don't think about one night stands.
Very wrong !
true...with a long term partner you can share so much more between the sheets.. :)
it's even better. no mess to deal with. no break-ups. no bad emotions. just raw pounding.
Sex on one night stands is more pressured as you're with someone you are not likely to know and it's all about performance on the night. There's nothing wrong with having one as long as both understand what is happening and the necessary precautions are taken.



Sex in a relationship is always better as you get to know what your partner likes best and vice versa and the pressure to perform is less as you will have many goes at getting it right.



Whichever you choose, be safe and have fun.
one night stands are dumb. you have to get to know the person before you can do something like that.if you do , do that you must be really despret. excuse my spelling
Sex is sex, adults who have "one night stands" shouldnt be frowned at. its a natural thing between two people. Having sex with a partner is more tender... but i dont think that its "wrong" to have one night stands.



Not everyone wants the hassel of a relationship.... and masterbation isnt as much fun, as the real deal. Providing the sex is done safe, both adults consent....
If they're both consenting adults and use protection both know where they stand and that it is only for one night then why not as long as neither are been deceptive to someone else..Sometimes they are good just to boost the ego and make someone feel alive again especially if they've been stuck in a stale relationship for a long period of time...
One night stands are wrong, they degrading and this respectful. How can you share your most private parts and your body with a total stranger. If you can pull a one night stand then you have what it takes to build a relationship and get to know the person before sex is involve. Its Immoral!
i personally have never had a one night stand, and dont really see them as fun, i perfer to make love and hav sex with my partner, because its more meaningfull, and u know that person loves u as much as u love them, perhaps im one sided as ive never had a one night stand, i mean some ppl really are into it and love having them, i guess we're all different though, and as long as they both know wot each other wants, and no relationship, and no one else is involved then i guess its down to them
Yes sex when you are in love is nice but for really wild,fun sex youv gotta have a 1 night stand!!They can be sooooo much fun!! x
The coin can be flipped on both sides, on the one hand it is no strings attached sex with a stranger/someone you know, and on the other it is sometimes a degrading form of intimacy with someone that you are never going to see again - which may be a good thing!. I think that as long as you are up front with the person, use protection and aren't with someone else, then no-one can get hurt and plus it sometimes curbs those feelings/cravings you get that you have to have sex with someone
basically now a days sex is sex. it aint special no more because our society is so hung up on sex that they jump into bed with everyone and anyone. sure if you can find love its fantastic but if you cant there aint anything wrong in having your needs fufilled.
One night stands are a quick fix to meeting a physical and sometimes, emotional need. They are destructive, non-productive and a waste of the precious gift that is reserved for love. And one way or another, someone always gets hurt, because you can't help but feel used-- which plays into your self-esteem.

If you have to try and justify a one-night stand, you have answered your own question.
I agree with you. But it has to be with someone out of town.
They can work out fine. Sometimes a one night stand can even develop into something more. But as long as neither one has any expectations about anything further and knows what they're about they don't necessarily have to be a cold or impersonal experience. I've had some one night stands that I remember very fondly.
It's really a personal preference type thing, if you are attracted and available it can be just as exciting as if you were in "Love."

Love is over rated and people dont seem to understand that alot of us in this world are the result of one night stands which is sad to say but is really the truth. So lets thank everyone who has had a child resulting from a one night stand, I think it has something to do with the United States being at 300+ Million now. Gotta love the freedoms :P
My Mum always told me that sex was only any good if it was with the right person. I never believed her until I met my true love.

I have no moral issue with one night stands and the sex can be fine as far as it goes but nothing compares to making love to a person that you truely love with all your heart. Because of the bond and the trust you share you can ask for anything, discuss anything and experiment as much as you want. Sex is definately better if it is with someone you love but sadly your batteries could run out waiting for Mr/Mrs Right so as long as your being careful don't beat yourself up about it too much.
well i have never done it partly b/c i have morals. there have been times that i wonder what it would be like. IMO, if you both are safe and you both want to do it then go for it. what i want to know is usually if someone has a one night stand they usually don't know all of this stuff about the person they are going to sleep with so you have talked about all of this with the person you are going to sleep with just this once? Hmmmm!!!
what happens if you get pregnant ,sorry it could be x amount of men ,heard it so many times .and the kids ,they never get to know who there father is ,is that fair on the kids
they're fine as long as you do it safely and its what both ppl want!
You're right it's not as good as being in love but there is a certain appeal to it too..



on a one night stand you can be whoever you wanna be.. Whatever takes your fancy.. try new stuff etc.. It's fun.. gives you a certain natural buzz....



Keep trying!!!