One Night Stands vs. Relationships?

Honestly.. Let's please get some honest answers here.





Would you rather find a girl/guy, spend up to 50 bucks the whole night, take them back home, have a one night stand, wake up the next morning and go on with life/school/friends.





Or do you rather meet that same girl/guy... spend the next month(s) or year(s) of your life dropping friends over her/him, dropping stupid amounts of money (guys get stuck doing it), loving each other, arguing and then you BRAKE UP and never really have anything to do with each other agian.





I prefer one night stands, you?|||Relationships - you seem to be wanting purely sex, which is fine for some, each to their own, I'm not judging|||Aside from your obvious commitment issues, I think you've got it wrong.





If you aren't ready for a relationship, fine. Many people aren't. Heck, most people aren't. But it doesn't mean you need to have one night stands and add to the possibility of spreading around disease, causing unwanted pregnancy with a stranger (condoms are only 93-97% effective) or ruining someone else's relationship by unknowingly sleeping with someone already in a relationship.





What I suggest is a friends with benefits type relationship with someone who is also not looking for a relationship. It's a win-win, being as you get the security of an exclusive sexual relationship, but you are free to go about your business.





When you are ready for a real relationship that doesn't involve lying, cheating, screwing each other over and pure selfishness, you'll understand why people choose marriage over a million one night stands.|||Half the adventure is that feeling that its all leading somewhere great so relationships are worth the fight and investment you and her put into it. If you don't feel like a warrior in your quest for filling a void in your life then go for the easy victories by snatching up hotties for 50 bucks or less. If you've got game you can get it for less. (winks)|||I prefer relationships generally. Sure, you lose less in a one night stand: but you gain so much more in a real relationship. You have to be willing to lose some in order to gain some. And when you find someone that's truly worth it, it's magic: and even if you do break up eventually, there are relationships I've had that I have progressed from, grown from and will never regret despite them not working out.





Thank you and good night.|||I have more self respect than wasting my time on people that self indulge in one night stands. It is a self destructive behavior. You just might be jaded before your time, because you have been through too many one night stands. BTW, relationship has absolutely no future, when one of the participants is as negative and as self centered as you seem to be. I have been happily married for 19 years now, and let me tell you that no simple exchange of bodily fluids (one night stand) could compare with love, passion and genuine friendship we share.|||I hate one night stands, I think they are horrible. But in this case, I would definitely have to choose a one night stand, but that's only if I knew it'd end up that way. Unfortunately we don't know that's going to happen though. If we did, there would be no reason in wasting each others time if you're just going to argue and break up, right?|||i prefer relationships.. it depends on the perspective of the person. but if we are talking about love, why choose something that has a deadline or an end such as pleasure for just a night? there is more pleasure in an eternal love that is to be shared with the one that makes your heart beats slower and faster at the same time.|||Wow, how bitter are you? Sounds like someone took your heart and stomped it flat. Here's the bottom line... one nighters are fine for a while, then they get boring. There's a time and a place for everything. Right now it sounds like it's not your time to be in a relationship. Maybe it'll change, maybe it won't. Personally, I much prefer the relationship... even with all the problems. Nothing like knowing that person is going to be sharing your pillow night after night after night.|||I would never have a one night stand, thats just gross... But I'd rather occasionally hook up with someone that I know , than have an actual relationship with them... Me and my guy friend usually go out for drinks, I buy some of his and he buys some of mine or we buy our own, go back to his house, hook up and are still cool with each other after that...|||Well that's your idea of a relationship


If you really like someone and really want to make it work you won't do all those things you just said.


If you like one night stands so much then thats you and you can be a womanizer all your life like Hugh Hefner (theres nothing wrong with that)|||If that is what relationships are all about then One Night Stands, but most relationships are not all like that. I would rather be in a relationship instead of jumping girl to girl that's pretty unhealthy. You should never drop your friends or your girl unless your friends give you a ultimatum.|||I'm all about the relationships. One night stands are cheap. Relatioships come with more risk...because there's more to gain from them. Love, companionship, stability.





And by the way, I have no problem paying my own way in a relationship. I actually make more money than my boyfriend.|||the aspect of relationships appeals more to me but one night stands are a lot easier to deal with. it just depends on the life you live and how much time and money your willing to devote. like i said though i prefere one night stands and if you really seem into that person who knows one night stands might turn into relationships what evs though|||One night stands are fine every once in a while. But you can't refuse to get into a relationship just because you're afraid of getting hurt or breaking up in the future. That's not a very good way to live life in my opinion.|||Well, it depends. My husband was obviously no one night stand. Weve been together almost 5 years now and have to 1 beautiful girl and 1 on the way. Before that, though. I wouldn't mind a one night stand every now and then. One day you might find someone you want more than a one night stand from.|||One Night Stands Are Great . . When Your Younger, But You Eventually Have To Grow Up And Hope That You Spen The Rest Of Your Life With The One You Love, And Are In A Relationship With.


Love is Allowing Yourself To Have You Heart Broken But Trusting The Person Not To Break It!|||You are working hard to get a STD or AIDS having 1 night stands. Relationships are worth it. Not all relationships work but there are some that do and you have to work hard to make them work. You can't just let things fix themselves because that never happens.|||i prefer to have the relationship, but with the way you mention it it sounds really bad lol, nah i'd still be with her in the long run then just for one night|||I dont prefer one night stands but I do like them once in a while. I'm single now and I def dont want anyone invading my space. I just like the excitement of a one nighter anyway. However, all the "what-ifs" can ruin it.|||One night stands are sometimes good but relationship is good reason is that with so many disease out there no one knows who haves it so it's better to stay with one, and it depends cause if you not happy with one just move on|||Relationships because half of that stuff has not happened to me in Relationships.





P.S. I am only 12 years old so don't blame me.|||RELATIONSHIP... Well its not about going out, spending huge amount of money, give up friends and social life and all other work and end up in sex... It is meant to make your life better...





One night stand will always be a BIIIIIIG NO!!!|||I prefer a relationship but based on the scenario you mentioned where it ends up in a break up and dropping friends, I'd go with the one night stand.|||to be honest i heard a one night stand could boost your reputation or leave you at the point where nobody would want you only the freaky ones. so i prefer a relationship.|||i have had my fair share of one nighties that blew my mind, but i was younger. now that I'm at the age that i am, i really want a long term relationship. so to answer ur question, both r wounderful.|||i prefer relationships i mean there worth a try you never know if your going to break up besides one night stands are how you get stds or aids and doing a one night stand makes you a whore|||relationships - its love :) plus theres always a possibility you wont break up. and you can have as much sex as you want!|||I prefer relationships, knowing someone is way better than using a c*mdumpster ;)|||I also prefer one night stands. I don't need to see her again when I'm done, and I can tell don't call me anymore. It's as easy as pie. Relationships are not for me at the moment.|||Realtionships with the right person beat one night stands, and believe me I've had both. Don't let one bad relationship make you think it would always be like that.|||wahahhahahaha...





this sound like my situation.......whahahaha :(





ofcourse i rather be with him ONLY him...but he doesn't trust me...whahahhha :(