Do I love HER or do I love what I could have?

I met this girl she is unlike the others. She wants to get married and does not want to have one night stands. I like the fact that she has that goal with life which I also have. I like some things about her. Other things about her I am not too crazy about. How do I know if I am in love with HER not with what being with her would bring?Do I love HER or do I love what I could have?If you both value monogamy, there's a start. Each of you probably have many years to decide what you really want. We're all so tied up in this ideal idea of 'love', when it's really nothing like television has promised. If you feel deeply for her, and you feel that you're growing closer as a couple as time progresses, that is an indicator of what you would call 'love' by today's standards.Do I love HER or do I love what I could have?good question but i dunno :SDo I love HER or do I love what I could have?give yourself time to dig in her personality more and more, and you will find out weather you like her for her or for some other purpose..Do I love HER or do I love what I could have?
Do you miss her when she is not around? Do you wish you could talk to her when you can鈥檛? If yes is to the both of these questions then well my good sir, you like her!